Underground Hero samu't sari'ng kung ano ano..

i got this message from a friend this morning, confused and don't know where to turn.. i edited a little so as to protect the person involved..

gusto ko mabalik ung dati namin. Pero di ko alam kung kaya ko pa. If you'll ask me now, mas mahal ko yung isa.

What would you do when you you're already in love with someone else and is still in a relationship? How would you tell the person you're currently with that you found someone else already? What if you know that the person you're with can't handle what you're about to say? How would you break this to him...gently?

Is it really true that in a relationship, una unahan lang ma- fall out of love?. It's like, pasensyahan na lang, nagexpire na ang love ko eh.. on to the next contract na. I remember asking a college friend regarding his relationship with his gf, about pano kung nagsawa ka na sa kanya? He replied without batting a false eyelash, hehe "bakit ka magsasawa kung mahal mo?" it struck me really hard, and it is true. Just like what Samantha (Julia Roberts) asked Jerry (Brad Pitt) in the movie The Mexican:

Samantha: When two people love each other...truly love each other, but they just can't seem to get it together; When do they get to the point of enough is enough?

Jerry: Never.

I actually blame him for this, for spending time with this guy and much worse falling. I havent been in a long term relationship, like this friend i have, and i guess i dont understand and know what he's going through. But i dont think you need to be in one to know that what he's doing is wrong, right? Di din naman ako malinis and i admit ive been in this predicament before, mahirap pala..better start clean than like this. Having to be the one to break someone's heart? not good!



lesson: huwag malandi! hehe. =P